A bunch of people have been reaching out to me with questions recently, and it’s made me realize that maybe I should answer a few frequently asked questions about my story.
First of all: I got better. And so can you.
It was definitely not easy. It took me 5 years to figure all of this out –which is why I work so hard to share it on my blog– so that, hopefully, it won’t take others as long!
You can read about all of the pieces I had to figure out in my series Key Points of My Recovery. I’m also planning to release an e-book of the exercises I found helpful, and also have a few more Youtube videos up my sleeve.
Ultimately, it came down to striking the right balance, while also never giving up.
I had to seek out professionals, but also weigh their advice about what I knew to be true about my own body. No one person was able to provide all of the answers for me– there were people who were incredibly helpful along the way, but ultimately, I am the one who had to put all the pieces together for myself.
This isn’t necessarily anyone’s fault (although there was certainly a wide range in skill level, among the people I encountered). The thing is, the SI joint is so unique from person to person. The things that hurt us, and the things that help us, can be very individual. So I had to weigh the advice given to me with people who had the training, as well as the experience treating others, to really give me some perspective and ideas. But ultimately I had to be the decision maker, and realize if maybe something wasn’t turning out to be quite so helpful.
At my worst:
- I couldn’t walk normally without limping, because one of my SI joints would be locked up
- I felt like one leg was dramatically longer than the other
- I couldn’t bend over and pick things up off the floor
- I couldn’t go out in public easily– if I did, I had to walk very slowly and carefully, avoiding pronounced twisting movements
- At social events, I had to spend most of my time sitting down
- I was a student at the time (physical therapy prerequisites) but I know I could not have had a job that required standing, walking, or even sitting in a chair for a prolonged period of time (which rules out just about every job).
- I had lower back pain, upper back pain, neck pain, and sometimes even jaw pain
- I have days where I forget I ever had SI joint dysfunction
- I can go out in public, keep up with my friends, go out dancing, and no one can tell I ever had an injury
- I can clean, bend over and pick things up off the floor, and generally do what I need to do on a daily basis
- I can go hiking for hours with no pain at all
Why I am still careful:
The thing to remember about SI joint dysfunction is that it involves a sprain to the ligaments that are meant to hold the SI joint in place:
This is similar to other injuries which involve sprains of the ligaments, such as ankle sprains.
Have you ever heard the saying that “once you sprain an ankle once, it will always be easier to sprain it again?”
This is because of the unfortunate reality about ligaments, which is that once they’ve been sprained, this means they’ve been ever so slightly stretched beyond their normal range of motion. And, unlike other tissues in the body, ligaments don’t receive a great blood supply. They don’t heal as well as muscles or even bones do. Ligaments never go back, completely, to the way they were.
That’s why it’s so important to keep your muscle strength up in your core, as well as the muscles that surround the joint.
Generally, the way I’m able to maintain my recovery and move around and exercise is by relying on the strength I’ve built up in my muscles.
I am totally fine now, and at peace with everything that’s happened. And I’m excited to help other people move on with their lives, too!
For more on the exact steps I took, check out Key Points of My Recovery.
There is also a bunch of into in my Strengthening section and…. eventually… I will be releasing an SI joint exercise e-book!